3 Common Mistakes That Guys Make When They Realize Their Ex is Moving On Faster Than Them

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Although it doesn’t feel nice to see your ex moving on while you’re still missing her, you need to maintain control of your emotions and interact with her in a way that makes her want you back, rather than turning her off and causing her to want to continue moving on without you.

So, to avoid making it easier for her to get over you, be sure to avoid making one or more of the following mistakes:

1. Asking her if she ever loved you

Simply asking a woman, “Did you ever really love you?” causes her to feel turned off and naturally want to say something like, “I don’t know…maybe. I’m not sure.”

Why?

When a man is insecure about his attractiveness and value to a woman and has to ask whether or not she sees him as being good enough, a woman loses respect and attraction for him.

Women are not attracted to men who need a woman to reassure them of their love or devotion, in order for him to feel confident, worthy, happy or secure about himself and his place in her life.

Women are attracted to men who believe in themselves no matter what a woman says or does.

When you are that type of guy, women automatically love you.

However, when you have ask them, “Do you still love me?” or, “Are you still attracted to me?” or, “Did you ever really love me?” then you’re the kind of guy who automatically ruins a woman’s feelings for you.

So, don’t put yourself in that position.

Just believe in yourself and know that she loved you.

Thinking or saying anything else automatically causes women to lose respect and attraction for you and then question whether or not they really loved you.

Based on the lack of respect and attraction she will be feeling, the answer that will come through for her will be something like, “Well, now that you ask…maybe I didn’t really love you. It took you asking me that to realize it.”

Unfortunately, many guys don’t realize that and mistakenly ask their ex woman something like, “How could you move on so quickly? Are you really that shallow? Didn’t our love mean anything to you? Did you even love me, or was it all a big joke to you?”

Although he is being honest about his feelings, his lack of belief in himself with turn her off.

Additionally, trying to make her feel guilty about moving on, isn’t going to make her want him back.

Rather than think, “He’s right. I am shallow for moving on so quickly! I have to get back with him right now!” she will feel annoyed with him for being so weak minded, doubting himself and trying to make her feel guilty for moving on without him.

The next mistake to avoid making is…

2. Thinking that you have no chance to get her back now that she is moving on

When an ex is moving on, a guy might begin to think, “Well…I guess I’ve lost her then. There’s no way I can get her back now. I should just accept it. Even though I still care for her and want her back, she’ll never be mine again. It’s over between us.”

By thinking in that way, he’s actually preventing himself from moving forward and becoming the kind of man who can attract her back (e.g. confident, determined, a go-getter, emotionally masculine).

If he then happens to interact with his ex on a phone call or in person and she senses his defeatist, self-doubting attitude (i.e. that he’s given up on the idea of attracting her back, feels unworthy of her now), she will see i

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t as a sign that she made the right decision to break up with him and will continue to move on.