What to Do: Call Her, Get Her Laughing and Feeling Good and Then Suggest a Catch Up, Not a Date

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Before you even get to the discussion having a relationship again, you have to first make her feel attracted by calling her (or talking to her in person), getting her laughing and and then suggesting a time to catch up.

When you catch up with her, you need to focus on rebuilding her feelings of respect and attraction for you.

Don’t try to talk her into having a relationship with you until you have had sex again. After sex, she will naturally be more open to having a relationship with you again.

So, don’t ask her to date you or think about having a relationship again.

You first need to focus on making her feel attracted and feel good around you and a great way to do that is with humor.

When you make a woman laugh and smile, she can’t continue to feel nervous or defensive around you for very long.

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